A huge part of raising children is dealing with their emotions along with your own. There is tremendous emotional development a child goes through until he’s an adult. Sometimes parents fail to notice behavioural patterns that if not addressed can have long lasting psychological impact on the child. As parents, you should be observant and take notice of your children’s behaviour and activities while avoiding being an overbearing and controlling parent.
Toxicity In Relationships
Toxic relationships are not just some fictional concept. Also, toxic relationships can be among spouses, it can be among parents and their children, and it can also be among siblings. There is usually never one common reason why a relationship is failing. As the nature of relationships changes, so do the expectations from the people in the relationship.
Disputes among parents and children:
- Misunderstanding due to generation gap
- Lack of trust
- Poor Communication
- Substance abuse
Anyone can be responsible for arguments and fights among parents and children. It is the willingness of both parties to meet in the middle to solve those disputes that is what’s important. Sometimes the issues are small enough that talking with a professional can help clear the air for everybody and help build back the relationship
Disputes among spouses:
- Regarding financial matters
- Regarding children
- Lack of trust
- Domestic abuse
- Lack of a social life
Being cooped up in one house with one person can bring out the worst in both the partners. Spending every day and every moment with the person you love, sounds good at first, but it could get too old too soon. Handling difficult situations with a loved one can be made so much easier with a professional’s help.
When you are too familiar with a person, someone you call family, you set up expectations from them. And when they fail to match those expectations your disappointment can turn into resentment which can turn into anger. If you are unable to solve these problems seeking professional help can help you save your relationship and start a fresh.
